By Marc Manor
Most of us are horrified as the prospect of being in a position of no longer being able to care for ourselves. We are horrified for two reasons: First, we don’t like the idea of not being able to carry out our own “Activities of Daily Living” (commonly known as ADLs) which are those activities required for one to adequately take care of themselves (bathing, bathroom, mobility, dressing, self-feeding etc.); and secondly, we really don’t like the idea of our spouse or children changing our diaper!
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It is hard to imagine ourselves getting to the point where we cannot function on our own, but assisted living and nursing homes are full of people who probably felt the same way just a few short years ago. The reality is we are all just one accident or illness away from that horrible reality. Some of us think about how we will handle the possibility of requiring long-term care, yet others don’t seem to think of this as a priority. As someone who has dealt with this situation for both of my parents, I highly recommend discussing the possibility with those you love and trust and have a plan in case long-term care becomes a reality. Some of the most well thought out financial and estate plans have been derailed because of long-term care requirements. Here are some things to consider:






