Monday, October 15, 2018

Leaving behind calm instead of chaos


By Marc Manor

Most days for me as an insurance professional are very satisfying.  I meet new people and help them get the most out of every healthcare dollar.  These people have great stories and because many of them are seniors, they have contributed so much to our American experience; our elders are truly “the greatest generation”.  I have always admired the work ethic and family devotion I observe in many of the seniors I work with.  Their stories are fascinating, and I love to hear them tell of their life and times.  It saddens me greatly when one of our senior clients pass on; but it motivates me even more to do more to make sure their families are cared for in accordance with their wishes.  
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When this happens, I sometimes get calls from the family members trying to tie up loose ends with unpaid hospital bills and insurance claims they don’t fully understand.  I can sense their despair and frustration when trying to gather information and make countless phone calls as they try to piece together all their loved one’s affairs.  I help them as much as possible, but it never feels like enough. 



Communicate and don’t procrastinate!

Our mortality is usually not a topic for a pleasant family dinner, but it should be discussed and planned to avoid the pain and frustration associated with the passing of a loved one.  Proper planning and good communication can make a huge difference in how a family grieve then move on with their lives.  While it is important to keep all our documents such as life insurance, wills, trusts, and valuables in a safe place, it is just as important to let people we love know where the most important documents are kept and how to manage them when the time comes. 

Here are some things to organize:

-       Identification.  Social Security cards, marriage and birth certificates may be needed to verify identity of the one who has passed.  Immediate family members may also have to produce some identification to receive benefits or otherwise establish their relationship with the deceased. Thieves often target the deceased for identity theft.

-       Insurance Policies.  Contact all life insurance carriers.  Many people have more than one, so a list of active policies should be maintained along with the policies themselves.  Be sure to include accidental death and other supplemental insurance plans that may have death benefits.  
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-       Wills and trusts.  The saying goes: “if you don’t have a will, no problem, the state has one for you!”.  This statement emphasizes the importance of these documents.  Probate can be a long and winding road.  The larger the family, the more complex sorting things out can be.  Wills and/or trusts are something many people do not have.  Can’t emphasize the importance of these documents too much!

-       Veterans are entitled to burial benefits through the Veterans Administration (VA).  Veterans are issued a form DD-214 upon discharge.  This document is necessary for many matters related to a number of other veteran’s benefits including some for spouses of military veterans.  VA disability claim numbers and other correspondence related to the VA should also be in a secure place which loved ones can access if necessary.

-       Tax documents may be required to close out an estate.  Professional assistance from a CPA or other tax professional may be required to settle things with the Internal Revenue Service (IRS). 

-       If an identity theft plan is in effect, it is recommended to leave that in place for about a year after to monitor.  Identity theft of the deceased may complicate or delay probate and other matters if not detected and/or reported. 

-       Other important documents such as deeds to property, titles to automobiles, stock certificates, and loan contracts will go a long way in helping those left behind with closing out an estate.

There are countless resources on the internet with checklists and advice on how to handle the loss of a loved one.  The point I am making with this blog is that these strategies have to be understood by the ones left behind.  The effort and frustration from those left behind can be greatly minimized if the required documents are available, accessible, and most of all, understood.  Death is an uncomfortable topic but since it is inevitable, so to should be that important conversation with loved ones; sooner rather than later.  There will always be grief and sadness upon the loss of a loved one but with proper planning what is left behind can result in calm instead of chaos.
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Marc Manor is a 30-year military veteran who is now dedicated to teaching his fellow Americans how to make the most of their Medicare and healthcare benefits.  As an independent agent, Marc has access to a wide variety of carriers with an abundance of resources to find tailored solutions.  There is no charge for a consultation so call 904-222-0698 or visit www.manormedisource.com today to stay on course with Medicare and healthcare education and insurance solutions.

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